|Reading with Grandma and Grandpa.|
Saturday morning we did our Christmas together. Ty and I had a couple of presents and then Carter opened presents from his grandparents, aunt and uncle, great grandparents, and great aunt. He enjoyed opening presents for a while and then became more interested in playing with his new toys and the paper. The last present he opened was a Strider bike from his Uncle Paul, Aunt Amanda, and grandparents.
|Pure concentration while opening a present from GiGi and Great Papa.|
|Checking out his Strider.|
Carter's first ride on the Strider, we helped him walk along:
Today on his Strider, grandpa helped steady the bike, but Carter did all the walking. Sidenote, Carter has a cold which is accompanied by a nasty cough.
After our Christmas we decided to head out for some exercise. We went out to the trails. Ty and I ran while his parents walked with Carter. It was a beautiful day, perfect for being outdoors and of course running! I decided to put in some quarter-mile and half-mile repeats and was pleased with the times I was able to hit with a hiatus from speedy runs. Afterward we decided to pick up sandwiches since we hadn't eaten lunch yet. The way home is where our day took a bit of a turn.
Ty was driving and took a left turn onto an on-ramp to the highway. A car came from the other direction and didn't yield where a yield sign was posted, slamming into the side of our car. She hit very close to where Leina was sitting, but thankfully no one was hurt! Obviously we were all a bit shaken up and I was mentally freaking out about the fact that Carter was in the car. When looking for cars I really wanted to find one that would allow us to have 2 car seats in the middle. We couldn't find any cars with that capability. While we sat waiting for police to arrive I began to stress about the fact that if we had another baby, Carter would have been in a car seat in the back row of seats on the side rather than the middle. I worked to hold in tears just having the thought. Luckily when I mentioned it to my mom she said someone would need to be going 55-60 miles for anyone to be seriously hurt and reminded me that Carter would be safer than any of us since he's in a car seat. I'm still a bit leery of Carter riding anywhere but in the middle of the seats, but I also have to remind myself there is absolutely no way I can protect Carter from everything.
|The side of our car after the wreck. We've only had it for a month!|
Needless to say we arrived home much later than planned. Ty's parents had offered to stay home with Carter so Ty and I could go on our first date since Carter was born. It's hard to believe we hadn't been on a date in over a year, but it's true. When Carter was younger I couldn't bring myself to leave him. And to be perfectly honest, I'm just starting to get better about that. I pretty much dread anything that causes me to be away from him during my precious evening time, especially when I'm working. Normally the thought of leaving Carter leaves my chest feeling tight, but I was actually excited for our date. Only Ty can do that to me! So I was hoping Ty was still feeling up to it. He was, so we headed out after Carter went down for the night.
|We had to take a picture before we headed out on our first date in a year!|
We wracked our brains for something to do. Being out of the dating game for a year sure made us rusty. I looked up coffee shops in the area and found one that was open and also served alcoholic beverages. It said they have live music on the weekend which we thought sounded like a lot of fun! When we arrived we walked up to the bar and I ordered a spiked hot chocolate. Then the bartender asked to see my ID and I realized I didn't have it with me. I was so embarrassed. Now I looked like I was underage and hoping I wouldn't get carded. I mumbled something about not having my ID and immediately turned to leave.
When we got to the car I was frustrated, embarrassed, and feeling defeated. I didn't want to give up on our date night, especially when lord knows when we'll have another. So after some tears, I bucked up and we continued on with what seemed to be a hopeless endeavor. We decided to find some hot chocolate somewhere and drive around looking at Christmas lights. First stop was Panera which had just closed. As we were driving to a nearby Starbucks I noticed a cute, little coffee shop that looked open. Ty flipped around and headed back and we had our first win of the night! Not only was the coffee shop open, but it was adorable! We sat on an old sunken in couch and sipped our drinks. My decaff caramel latte which was delicious and Ty's iced something that he took a few sips of and claimed it tasted like somebody's rear end (putting it nicely). It was the perfect date. We sat and talked, just enjoying each other. Then we walked down the strip of shops a little ways. Ty had made me grab a coat at the last minute, so I was comfortable, but he didn't grab one for himself and was cold. On our way home I felt like that date was everything I needed. Some quiet, adult time alone with Ty somewhere other than our couch. So the best Christmas present (other than Carter) was the gift of a date from his parents.