Monday, October 13, 2014

Weekly Learning Theme: Pumpkins

With a trip to the pumpkin patch planned, last week was the perfect week to focus on pumpkins.  When I was planning the week I immediately thought of activity after activity involving pumpkin seeds and then branched out from there.  We had a lot of fun and the pumpkin patch was definitely a hit!  Carter loved it!  

Listed below are the objectives I am focusing on for the themed weeks.  The highlighted objectives are ones Carter received exposure to during our theme this week:
  1. Know the names of and be able to point out body parts.
  2. Know names of objects and be able to point to them when asked.
  3. Sort objects based on size or color/Match like objects together, for example match a circle with a circle. 
  4. Play make believe.
  5. Speak in short phrases and 2-4 word sentences. (He's done some 2 word sentences already!)
  6. Follow simple instructions.
Activities/Movement:
    • I had a bag full of green and orange die cut pumpkins I made and used with a math activity in the classroom.  I pulled them out and we used them to sort and make patterns.  Carter is getting so good at sorting and it was almost like he was thinking, "Mommy there are only 2 colors, this is way too easy!"  I had him say the color of the pumpkin as he sorted it and he did most of the time.  He made quick work of sorting the pumpkins and then I showed him how to make a simple AB pattern.  I could tell he didn't understand what I was doing but thought it looked pretty cool.
    After sitting on the potty in the morning he didn't want to put his pants back on!
     
    • I painted some pumpkin seeds 3 different colors and had Carter sort them based on color.  He sorted the seeds and then wanted to play with them so I threw them in with the other seeds for some of our other activities.  He was cracking me up doing things differently than he ever has before.  I showed him a blue one and asked him where it went.  He took it and put it over by itself and then moved the rest of the blue seeds over with it instead of putting the seed I gave him in the original blue pile.  It's fun to see him thinking and changing things up.  He definitely understands the concept if he's able to group items of the same color in different ways.
    Sorting the seeds.
    • Since Carter is doing so well sorting items based on color, I thought I'd throw in sorting based on size.  I cut pumpkins out of orange construction paper.  I made 3 small, 3 medium, and 3 large pumpkins.  I tried to make the size difference really obvious, but I felt like I could've made the size difference between the small and medium pumpkins a bit more extreme.  I started the activity the same way I originally started when we began sorting items based on color.  I showed Carter a small pumpkin and told him it was small, then I set it down to start the small pile.  I did the same thing with a medium and a large pumpkin.  Then I would pick a pumpkin up from the pile, tell him which size it was, and place it on the correct pile.  I sorted all the pumpkins a few times before offering for him to try.  He really wasn't interested and just shuffled the pumpkins around so I didn't press it since it's a new skill.  I never got a picture of him watching me sort since I was the one sorting, so I just took a picture of the sorted pumpkins to show what they looked like.
    • Carter loves to put things inside objects and dump them back out.  Going with that I decided to pull out a Halloween pumpkin bucket to put toys in and dump them out.  We used his monster finger puppets that are different colors.  I would ask Carter to put a certain color monster in the pumpkin.  When all the monsters were in the pumpkin I'd ask him to dump them all back out.  We also counted how many monsters there were as he put them in the pumpkin and we counted how many there were of each color.  He had a blast with this game and after a while of working on colors and counting I let him do his own thing dumping the monsters in and then pouring them out.  I plan on doing this activity again during Halloween week since he had so much fun!
    Putting monster finger puppets in the pumpkin.
    • I used the same pumpkin bucket to practice with eyes, nose, head, and mouth.  I asked Carter where the pumpkin's eyes were and he pointed to them.  Then he very excitedly pointed to his own eyes as well.  I asked him where each feature was on the pumpkin and he pointed to it and then pointed to his same feature.  He was so proud of himself and enjoyed a different spin on pointing out features/body parts.
    • I saw these really cute pumpkins made out of an egg carton and just had to do it with Carter.  He helped me paint the egg carton which was the styrofoamy kind rather than the paper kind.  Then I found some of Ty's old golf tees, but they were too big and hung out the bottom of the pumpkin so I just painted pumpkin seeds green and used them instead.  Carter and I counted the pumpkins and then he was quick to grab them and pull the pumpkin seed stems out of each one.  I had filled a container with pumpkin seeds for him to play with and he put the seeds in the container with the rest of them.  He had a blast with the pumpkin seeds, putting them in a yogurt container, dumping them out, running his hands through them.  Then Harper came over and started to eat them.  Carter thought it was hilarious and started feeding her, so I put them away.  The egg carton pumpkins didn't interest him and he didn't play with them much at all.  I was glad I hadn't put too much work into them to make them look adorable like the ones I'd seen originally.

    Pulling out the pumpkin seed stems.
    Pouring pumpkin seeds out of a yogurt container.
    • I cut a large circle out of orange paper.  Then I cut out triangles for eyes and a nose and I cut out a couple of different shaped mouths.  Carter and I sat on the floor and I showed him how we could take the shapes and make faces on the pumpkin.  I talked about the shapes as I did it.  For example, "We can use this triangle to make a nose."  Then we moved to our craft table and I gave Carter a glue stick.  I helped him put glue on each piece and he chose where he wanted to glue it.  I reminded him to put the sticky side down.  He decided his pumpkin needed 2 mouths!
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      Pleased with his finished product.
       
    • Thursday night when Carter painted his pumpkin, Jeremy prepared his for carving.  He cut the top off his pumpkin and Carter and I helped him pull the insides out.  Carter didn't enjoy pulling the "guts" out as much as I had thought he would.  We then went through and separated the seeds out because I had lots of grand plans for those seeds!
    Ready to help pull the "guts" and seeds out of the pumpkin.
    Craft:
    • In the afternoon before we went to the pumpkin patch we made a pumpkin craft to get Carter excited about the pumpkin patch.  I had him finger paint a paper plate with orange paint.  Then we made a handprint with green paint.  When they were both dry I glued the handprint to the plate to give the pumpkin a stem.  Carter loves his pumpkin!
     

    •  Just like last year we bought a pumpkin for Carter to paint.  See pictures from last year's experience here.  He wasn't nearly as into it as he was last year.  He spent about 3 minutes painting his pumpkin, 3 minutes painting his body, and the rest of the time running around the backyard touching stuff including the back door.  It still turned out really cute and I even got him to make handprints on the pumpkin!
     
     
     
     
    Messy boy after painting his pumpkin.
    Trying to re-interest him in painting his pumpkin.
     
    • Before painting Carter's pumpkin, we compared his pumpkin to Ty and Jeremy's pumpkins.  I asked him which one he thought was the fattest.  He pointed at one of the pumpkins.  We used yarn to measure around the pumpkin and cut it where it started to overlap.  Then we used the yarn to measure the 2 other pumpkins and saw that it overlapped on both of them, so Carter did in fact choose the fattest pumpkin.  Then I asked him which one he thought was the tallest and we did the same thing to check his guess.  Again he was right and I wondered if he just happened to point at the correct pumpkin both times.  I just realized I put this activity in the craft section, but I don't want to move it and have to re-upload all the pictures so I'm leaving it.
    Measuring around the pumpkin.
     
    Deciding which pumpkin he thought was the tallest.
    Measuring the height of the pumpkin.
    • Once we had all the seeds from Jeremy's pumpkin dried and gathered, we made a couple of crafts with them.  The first project we did was a seed painting.  My plan was to dip seeds in paint and use them to make marks on the paper the texture and size of the seed.  I showed Carter what to do and he loved the idea.  He would plop the seed on the paper and then slide it around to make lines on the paper.  He took my idea and made it even better.  The seeds didn't make a defined outline of their shapes like I'd thought they would on the paper, they more so just made a blob.  Carter's way of doing it made the picture more colorful and interesting.
    Pushing the seed around on the paper.
     
    Asking for his next color.

    The finished product.
    • After we'd used the seeds dipped in paint to make a picture we glued seeds to a piece of paper.  I thought Carter would just throw them around on the paper and not make much of a design.  That's exactly what he did.  He'd put some glue on the paper or I'd help him put some glue down and then he'd grab a handful of seeds and toss them on the glue.  When he's older I think it would be fun to have him make a shape out of glue and then fill it in with pumpkin seeds.  We used the painted seeds from our craft earlier and they looked pretty cool!
     

    Special Snack:
    • Carter and I made pumpkin bread right before lunch one day.  That way it could bake and then cool before he woke up from his nap and he could enjoy it as a snack.  We used a simple recipe I found here.  As always he enjoyed helping.  At one point he looked down at all the flour in the bowl and decided to grab a handful and throw it.  We ended up with flour all over the counter, his face, my computer (which we were using for the recipe, and in the sink.  
     
     

     Make Believe:
    • We read the book From Seed to Pumpkin by Wendy Pfeffer and then pretended to plant and care for our own pumpkin seeds.  I turned to the page in the book where they planted the seeds and we pretended to dig up our carpet to plant the seeds.  Then Carter dumped seeds on our spot to plant them and I gave him an empty cup so he could pretend to water them.  He enjoyed watering them and made noises that sounded like water spraying as he did it.
    Planting the seeds.
    Watering the seeds.

    Songs:

    • One of my favorite songs to sing each year with my class was always "I'm a Little Pumpkin".  It is sung to the tune of "I'm a Little Teapot" and has actions to go with it.  I sang it to Carter a couple times, showing him the actions and then he started doing some of the actions along with me.  Of course when I pulled out my phone to record him doing the actions he just danced around instead of doing actions, but he was still very cute!  We also listened to a couple songs on Youtube.

     "5 Little Pumpkins on a Gate"

    "That's How a Pumpkin Grows"


    Field Trip/Interactive Experience:
    • Our pumpkin week was scheduled around a trip to the pumpkin patch.  We were supposed to go in the morning, but when we realized the pumpkin patch was open until 8pm and Ty could go with us we switched to an evening trip.  We went to a pumpkin patch with inflatable toys, pumpkin games, tractor rides, a corn maze, face painting, hay bale climbs, and animals to look at.  When we first arrived before we even entered the pumpkin patch there were hay bales, scarecrows, and pumpkins decorating the entrance.  Carter took off squealing and running when he saw the pumpkins.  Ty and I laughed that we may not even need to pay to go inside.  We decided not to buy a pumpkin there and go with a cheaper one elsewhere and that was fine with Carter.  He enjoyed all the activities as well as picking up and carrying miniature pumpkins around.  I was impressed that he sat still enough to get his face painted.  After it was painted we told him not to touch it so it could dry.  He touched it once and then never did again.  By the time we left he wanted to be carried because he was so tired.  The whole time we were there he was in overdrive, running from place to place and squealing in excitement.  I just grabbed the camera and not the camera bag and we ran out of battery while we were there so I ended up taking most the pictures with my phone. 
    Before we even paid and entered the pumpkin patch.
    Playing with the decorations as you enter the pumpkin patch.

    He took off running once we got inside.
    Posing as Charlie Brown.

    He LOVED playing in the corn.  It was one of his favorite things.
     
    Ready for a ride while being pulled by a tractor.
    Getting his face painted.
    Putting mini pumpkins in a pumpkin bucket.
    Climbing the hay bales.
     
    Pumpkin bowling.
    Riding a tire horse.

     Books:


    When I got on our library's website to request holds on pumpkin books I was not surprised to find many of them were checked out and there were even multiple holds on some of the books.  Luckily I had a decent number of pumpkin books from my school collection and I was able to request a few books from the library.  It is definitely a popular time to be reading about pumpkins!  I put more holds on books than I normally would have because I figured most of the books wouldn't arrive until after our pumpkin week was over.  When Carter and I went to the library to pick up our books on hold I was shocked to see how many books there were!  We ended up with so many books they didn't all fit in our library bag and I had to pile some into the wagon!  I was surprised his favorite book from the week was one I had from school, Pumpkin Soup.  The first time he brought it to me requesting that I read it, I figured he wouldn't make it through much of the book.  I was shocked when he not only made it all the way through the book, but wanted to read it again!  The book is very cute and the 3 main characters are a cat, a duck, and a squirrel.  But it is also pretty long, especially for a child Carter's age!  He would bring it to me saying kitty.  It was so cute.  We read it so many times I actually got a little bit tired of it, but as I say that I kinda want to read it right now!
    • Piggies in the Pumpkin Patch by Mary Peterson and Jennifer Rofe
    • Sixteen Runaway Pumpkins by Dianne Ochiltree
    • The Berenstain Bears and the Prize Pumpkin by Stan and Jan Berenstain
    • The Biggest Pumpkin Ever by Steven Kroll
    • It's Pumpkin Time by Zoe Hall
    • Patty's Pumpkin Patch by Teri Sloat
    • Pumpkin Soup by Helen Cooper
    • Perfect Pumpkins by Jeff Bauer
    • Duck and Goose Find a Pumpkin by Tad Hills
    • Pumpkin Day by Nancy Elizabeth Wallace
    • Franklin's Pumpkin by Sharon Jennings
    • From Seed to Pumpkin by Wendy Pfeffer
    • Pumpkin Eye by Denise Fleming
    • Pumpkins by Ken Robbins
    • Pumpkin Cat by Ann Warren Turner
    • Pick a Perfect Pumpkin by Robin Koontz
    • I Spy a Pumpkin by Jean Marzollo
    • Pooh's Halloween Pumpkin by Isabel Gaines
    • Pumpkin Fever by Charnan Simon 
    • From Seed to Pumpkin by Jan Kotke
    • The Fierce Yellow Pumpkin by Margaret Wise Brown
    • Pumpkin Day, Pumpkin Night by Anne Rockwell
    • Good Night, Little Pumpkin by Claire Kaey
    • Pumpkin Shivaree by Rick Agran
    • The Very Best Pumpkin by Mark Kimball Moulton
    • Pumpkin Baby by Jane Yolen

    Sunday, October 12, 2014

    Prairie Fire Half Marathon 2014

    Last year Jeremy, Thomas, and I ran the Prairie Fire Half Marathon.  We chose the race because it was close to where Thomas was living at the time and we could go visit him and run the race while we were there.  We had a great experience.  It was a very organized race with great spectators and cool shirts.  Mom and dad spectated the race and loved how many points of the race they could walk to with the stroller.  Right after the race my mom was pumped up about it and asked us if we'd run it again.  We all agreed we would so she went ahead and registered us for this year.  At the time Ty and I hadn't begun discussing me staying at home and therefore were still thinking we'd have to put 3-4 years between our children so we could afford 2 in daycare.  There was no doubt in my mind I'd be able to run the race.  Dad enjoyed watching us run and after the Boston Marathon bombing he decided he wanted to run a half marathon, so he also signed up.  Ty was registered for his first half marathon that following month and bravely agreed to sign up before even experiencing his first half.
    2014 finisher's picture.  Carter wanted to be in the picture too!
    Saturday morning we slept in, ate breakfast, took the dogs to the kennel, ate lunch, and then headed out.  We arrived a few minutes before mom and dad.  Once they arrived and we checked into the hotel we headed to the race expo.  It was the first race expo Ty had ever been to in order to pick up his own packet.  The half marathon he ran last November was very small and didn't have an expo.  The expo was within walking distance of our hotel so we walked there and back.  We stayed at the Drury Inn and were very impressed that they served a free dinner to guests.  We ate dinner at the hotel.  They served hot dogs, chili, baked potatoes, macaroni and cheese, salad, carrots, and celery.  Not the ideal pre-race dinner, but I had macaroni and cheese, a baked potato, salad, carrots, and celery.  It was actually quite delicious.  We hung out in the room for a bit and then headed out for some frozen custard per my request.
    At the race expo.

    We had adjoining rooms and both rooms had 2 beds.  We put pillows under the sheets all around one bed and let Carter sleep by himself.  As I laid in bed with him, helping him fall asleep, I noticed I was struggling to see out of my left eye.  I wasn't sure if I was having the tell-tell migraine vision loss because it was dark.  After Carter fell asleep I headed into my parents' room with everyone else and immediately knew I had the vision loss that accompanies a migraine so I said good night to everyone and headed to bed myself around 9pm.  My head started hurting pretty much right when I laid down so it took me quite a while to fall asleep.  Once I did I woke up about every hour either because my head hurt so bad I needed to move positions or because I was so overheated (thank you bun in the oven for turning me into an oven when I sleep!)  It was a rough night.  And of course every time I woke up I wasn't able to fall back to sleep because I had to use the restroom so I had to get up and potty every. single. time.  Finally at 6:30 when I woke up I decided to just get up.  As I was sitting on the toilet going potty for the millionth time I started dry heaving fiercely.  I thought I was going to actually throw up so I grabbed the trash can.  My head was still pounding, but it was getting better.

    The race started at 7:30 and was really close to our hotel so we left our hotel at 7:15 to walk to the race.  That gave us plenty of time to get there and kept us from having to wait in the long porta potty lines as we got our last minute restroom breaks done in the hotel lobby.  It wasn't nearly as cold as I was expecting as the weather app had said it was 45 degrees and felt like 42 degrees.  I could tell there was a decently strong wind so I decided to go ahead and wear my long sleeved shirt, gloves, and head band along with my spandex shorts (no chaffing for this momma!)  We put all of our warm gear in the stroller and headed for the race start.  I gave Ty a kiss as we approached the area in the starting corral where he would line up.  Jeremy was going way up front so we said bye to him.  When dad heard about my low placenta and the doctor's concern about bleeding during long runs he decided to run the race with me.  Since I'd run my 10 miler at 9:00 pace my goal was to break 2 hours and that was also dad's goal.  We walked up until we found the 2 hour pace group and lined up there for the start.  My concerns during this race were that I would dry heave more during the race, I would have bleeding, and my head would kill.  Luckily none of those things happened.  Every once in a while as a foot would hit the pavement my head would ache and I couldn't find my sunglasses as we were leaving, so the sun killed once it came out.
    Walking to the race start.
    When the gun went off dad and I had to walk for a while to get to the start.  Our plan was to start off at 9 minute per mile pace.  Our first 3 miles were 8:54, 8:52, and 9:02.  It felt so slow and during the 2nd mile at one point dad informed me that we had sped up to 7:40 pace so we had to rein it in a little bit.  Once we finished the 3rd mile I asked dad if he wanted to shoot for a bit faster pace for the next 3 miles, possibly 8:50-8:55 pace.  Then I realized that we had some decent hills in that section.  We were still able to pick it up for a couple miles with miles 4-6 at 8:55, 8:50, and 9:05.  I was a little worried when I saw we hit a 9:05 mile because I was starting to feel a little bit tired and I knew 9:04 pace was a 1:59 half-marathon.  Luckily it was time to eat our Gu.  Dad had never tried one before and had a bit of a difficult time getting his down, but he did.  Once I ate my Gu I got my 2nd wind.  I had originally thought I'd try for my usual race strategy of picking the pace up a little bit each quarter, but going into mile 7 I told dad I just wanted to shoot for 9:04 or under for the rest of the race.  I didn't want to push it too much and my hips were starting to feel sore.
    Our awesome cheer squad with the sign complete with an ultrasound picture!
    Close up of the sign.

    We went through miles 7-9 at 9:04, 8:51, and 8:49.  We saw Carter and mom at mile 9.  I was able to pass off my gloves, long sleeved shirt, and belt I put our Gu in.  Dad passed off his red jacket he'd been wearing.  I got really excited going into mile 10 because I knew we were heading into the last quarter of the race.  I had to keep telling myself not to get too excited and pick it up too much.  I didn't want to lose steam during the last few miles.  There were a few times I thought I lost dad because I didn't see red in my peripheral vision and I realized dad was now in a blue short sleeved shirt.  We both felt like passing off clothing to mom really made us feel lighter and gave us an extra pep in our step.  We were surprised to see mom again at mile 11.  We saw her before she saw us so we yelled at her.  She got so excited she took off running to get in front of us for a picture and stuff started falling off the stroller.  It was cute because we heard people behind us letting her know her camera had fallen off the stroller.  Runners really are so nice.  Around this time we got passed by the lead marathon runner heading into mile 16 of the marathon.  That was pretty exciting and I couldn't cheer for him loud enough. 
    Carter enjoying a banana while we ran.

    Miles 10-12 were 8:47, 8:56, and 8:42.  After running mile 12 in 8:42 I knew we needed to really pick it up during the last mile because I like to run my last mile the fastest.  I started to really take off and dad kept right with me.  With about a half mile to go we were really blowing by other runners and then we hit the 13 mile mark in 8:26 and I could see the bridge you cross and then finish on the other side.  As we turned onto the bridge I heard Jeremy cheering for us.  I looked forward and saw a woman in all yellow pretty close in front of us so I decided to catch her.  We went around her and as we crossed the finish line I saw 1:56 on the clock.  Boom, we had run under 2 hours even for our gun time with the walk we had to the start.  Our official finishing time was 1:56:44.  They gave dad the win over me, possibly due to alphabetical order David vs. Elizabeth.  We were handed medals and had to stop in order to get our finishers shirts.  Right after I finished my head which had felt pretty darn good during the race immediately started pounding.  After I got my shirt I started dry heaving as I grabbed water and Gatorade and attempted to get out of the finish area as quickly as possible.  I'm used to being farther up in races where it's less congested and with my head feeling the way it did I was getting really frustrated with all the runners meandering around and stopping in front of me.  I looked back to see dad was way behind me, but I had to get out of the area because I couldn't stop dry heaving. 
    Me and dad after the finish.

    We found mom and I was excited to see Carter.  Finally after drinking plenty of water, putting a towel on my neck, loosening my ponytail, and taking off my sweaty sports bra my head started to feel a little bit better.  I walked to the spectator area to watch Ty finish and also saw the first marathon runners finish.  I started to wonder if part of the reason why I felt so sick, other than my migraine, was because I needed to eat.  So I headed to the finishers area to get a chocolate milk.  I thought mom and dad would wait for me where they were, but they followed me without telling me.  I headed back to where they had been and they were gone.  I had heard them mention that they might as well start walking and assumed they were either going to walk toward where we knew Jeremy was or to the hotel.  I looked for them for a while and then decided to walk back to the hotel in case that's where they went.  I arrived at the hotel and didn't see them so I asked to call the room.  No one answered.  After sitting in the lobby for 30 minutes and assuming that they were either in the room and not answering the phone or out searching for me, it finally dawned on me that mom had her cell phone with her.  So I asked the front desk to call her.  Mom, Carter, and Ty were all still at the race searching for me while dad and Jeremy had walked back to the hotel to check there.  Dad was also in the lobby but had gone through different doors and I was facing the wrong way to see him.  I felt really bad everyone had spent so long looking for me and wished I'd thought to call mom sooner.  But I was thankful it was finally time for a shower!

    I think the official finishing times show gun time, not chip time as Ty's Garmin showed a faster time.  I didn't stop my Garmin as I crossed the finish line, but I know I saw 1:56 on the finishing clock as we crossed the finish line and I know we walked for a bit to the start.  Jeremy finished 38th out of 1,995 finishers with a time of 1:29:27!  That put him 10th out of 131 runners in his age group.  Dad and I both finished in 1:56:44.  That put us 427th and 428th out of 1,995 runners which shocked me!  Dad was 20th out of 48 in his age group and I was 26th out of 192 in my age group.  Not bad for a pregnant lady!  Ty finished in 2:25:47 good for 1,338th out of 1,995 and 72nd out of 90 in his age group.  He struggled a bit in the race and was almost 10 minutes slower than his half marathon last year, but actually trained better for this race.  He said he went out in under 10 minute pace and felt that hurt him later on in the race.  Something I've learned through my years of running half marathons is that it's best to take off conservatively and try to make up time in the 2nd half rather than go out too fast because things deteriorate quickly.  Although not quite what he hoped for he was still positive and enjoyed the race.  He said the miles went by so much quicker in this race because he was always running with a pack of people.
    Jeremy looking strong during the race!

    Due to being pregnant I was cautious during the race.  I drank water at every water stop and even took 2 cups at some of the stops.  I didn't pick up the pace when I really felt like it until the very end of the race.  I was pleased to break 2 hours which was my goal and to finish with no bleeding.  It was so much fun to run with dad and the last time I remember running with him was back in high school when he'd run 5ks with me.  It was like a blast from the past and I really enjoyed getting to share in his first half marathon with him.  We had to rush off after lunch so we could make it home in time to pick Harper up from the kennel so we wouldn't have to pay for another night.  When we got home I told Ty this is the 2nd most sore and tired I've been after a half marathon.  He quickly responded with, "And the 2nd most pregnant you've been during a half marathon."  I thought it was hilarious and it is so true!  Even though I don't really look pregnant yet, I sure feel pregnant!  When my mom texted me to say they made it home I relayed Ty and my conversation because I thought it was funny.  She said dad said "This is the sorest I've ever been after a half (it was his first one) and I'm pretty sure it's because this pregnant woman tried to kick my ass."  I thought that was funny!  He told me the last mile of the race when I picked it up he thought about not going with me, but told himself he was going to run the whole race and finish with me so he took off too.  Sounds like he'd rather have coasted it in to the finish!

    Thursday, October 9, 2014

    The First Trimester Comparison

    As the 1st trimester of this pregnancy is wrapping up and the 2nd trimester is very welcomed as it rolls in, I find myself reflecting on how it has been different than when I was pregnant with Carter.  At my first doctor's appointment I mentioned some cramping I was feeling and freaking out a little bit about and he responded with something along the lines of: "Subsequent pregnancies are just harder.  They are harder on your body, on you, it will be different."  In the very beginning I felt that was so true.  I was cramping when I hadn't with Carter.  I was miserably sick starting at 5 weeks when I didn't get nauseous until around 8 weeks with Carter.  I had 3 migraines in one week soon after we had a positive pregnancy test.  But then that was it, 3 migraines in one week and I haven't had one since.  When I was pregnant with Carter I had 2-4 migraines every week for most of the 1st trimester.  It was rough.  Along with migraines always comes nausea for me.  So I was also nauseous, but not the morning sickness nausea.
    I don't know why, but I feel like I looked so cute with Carter and just look pudgy this time.  Not sure if it's because I came into this one with a softer midsection than with Carter or if I'm carrying differently or something.

    When I was pregnant with Carter people would tell me I was so lucky to not have morning sickness, but I wasn't sure what was worse morning sickness or migraines.  Now that I've struggled with morning sickness this time I can hands down declare that migraines are worse.  At least the kinds of migraines I have compared to the severity of morning sickness I had.  I only actually threw up twice, so I definitely didn't have severe morning sickness whereas my migraines were debilitating.  I distinctly remember one day at school sitting on the floor wracked with a migraine and severe nausea, rocking back and forth and hoping I wouldn't randomly throw up on one of the children sitting in my little circle for a guided reading small group.  The most frustrating thing about morning sickness to me was that I couldn't eat and when I was able to eat it wasn't healthy and I could only think of a select few things that didn't sound totally disgusting.  There were days where I felt so bad, Carter and I didn't leave the house.  One day I gave up trying to keep Carter engaged physically and mentally in productive learning activities and we sat and watched half of Frozen because I still hadn't seen it and neither had Carter, but I didn't plan on him watching a movie.  Lucky for me I felt sick earlier on this time, but I also started to feel better earlier too.  With Carter I didn't start feeling better until the start of the 2nd trimester around 14 weeks.  This time I started feeling better at week 9 and really got my energy back as the 2nd trimester began.
    This little guy has been so tolerant of my exhaustion and nausea!

    The exhaustion has been another huge difference.  With Carter I was constantly so exhausted.  When I vacuumed I got out of breath and light headed.  When I ran I barely made it to a mile before turning around because I was so tired.  It was the most tired I had ever been in my life.  I thanked all my lucky stars that most of my 1st trimester was during the summer so I just had summer school and tutoring rather than a full school day.  Even then one time I fell asleep sitting up at tutoring for a few seconds before realizing I'd fallen asleep and freaking out that such a thing could even happen!  Sure I've been tired this time too, but nothing like what I remembered from before.  I was so worried that I wouldn't be able to do much with Carter and he would be bored.  I was really dreading the 1st trimester exhaustion.  Thankfully my exhaustion was nothing compared to when I was pregnant with Carter.  Yes, I was tired.  Yes, I needed a nap.  But I could function and relatively well.  Occasionally I got out of breath walking up stairs, vacuuming, and other every day activities but I could still carry Carter around the aquarium, climb through tunnels at the park, and chase the dogs with Carter in the backyard.  I'm not sure what I can thank for the more energetic 1st trimester.  It could be that I am at home and am able to take a nap when needed.  With Carter I only had time for about a 30 minute nap between summer school and tutoring, so I didn't get as much rest.  I also get to sleep in until Carter wakes up around 7:00 am.  With Carter I had to wake up early around 5:30-6:00 am so I could run before summer school.  It could be that I've gone through this before and my body isn't in as much shock.  It could be that I've experienced the kind of tired where I started to begin to wonder how much longer I could go without sleep before I died.  The first couple of weeks Carter was home he ate every hour.  Between nursing him, changing his diaper, swaddling him, laying him back down, and falling back to sleep myself I was sleeping in 15 minute increments at night.  It was the most exhausted I'd ever been in my life.  Now that I've experienced that, did the 1st trimester exhaustion just not seem as bad in comparison?  Whatever it was, I am so thankful.  I've been able to keep up with Carter and enjoy our time together.  Now I'm hoping for as nice of a 2nd and 3rd trimester as I had with Carter.  I'm hoping this easier 1st trimester hasn't jinxed me! 
    He makes everything so much more fun!

    Wednesday, October 8, 2014

    Wordless Wednesday

    Playing cars with Jake.

    Carter decided he wanted to walk rather than ride in the stroller.
    He tried to give Jake a kiss, but Jake didn't understand what he was doing.
    At the zoo with Uncie Jeremy.
    Walking to the zoo for the Zoo Run 5k.
     
    Carter wanted to push the stroller and he didn't want any help!
    Checking out a tote of old clothes while wearing my slippers.

    Returning books at the library.
     
    Reading in the wagon on the way home from the library.
     
    Reading on the potty.

    Tuesday, October 7, 2014

    Week 14 Bumpdate

    Woo hoo to the end of the first trimester and welcome 2nd trimester!  I love, love, loved the 2nd trimester when I was pregnant with Carter.  So many exciting things happened.  We found out Carter was a boy, felt him kick for the first time, saw him kick and move my stomach for the first time, heard his heart beat with a stethoscope, not to mention my migraines went away and my energy came back!  I couldn't ever decide whether I enjoyed the 2nd or 3rd trimester more.  I definitely felt better during the 2nd trimester, but Carter moved around so much more during the 3rd trimester which I loved and we could start to countdown until his arrival.  It's all just such an amazing experience.  So I'm definitely pumped to be entering the 2nd trimester already.  This pregnancy is flying by!
     
    October 7, 2014

    Baby's Size: Baby is the size of a lemon and is probably about 3.5 inches!  He/she is now urinating and can grasp things as well as make facial expressions.

    Weight Gain: Still up one pound, so I'd say I have actually gained a pound.  I think that's exactly where I started the 2nd trimester with Carter!

    Maternity Clothes: I've hit that point where the hair tie trick isn't quite cutting it, but it's too early for maternity clothes.  If I use a hair tie to close my pants I get cramps because it is putting too much pressure on my uterus.  It's frustrating and I hated using the belly band when I was pregnant with Carter so I'm attempting to avoid it by wearing yoga pants and sticking with my jeans that used to be so loose I had to wear a belt with them.  My mom was in town this weekend and we went to Buy Buy Baby to buy our shower gifts for one of my friends' showers.  We were looking at the maternity section and a sign said buy 3 items, get 1 free so my mom decided to treat me to some maternity clothes!  We picked out a pair of yoga pants, a shirt, and 2 dresses.  It was so exciting and I'm looking forward to wearing them!

    Sleep:Thankfully Skippy has toned down his nightly shenanigans and I'm sleeping much better.  I wake up to use the bathroom anywhere from 1-3 times during the night.  Last week I was struggling to fall asleep and if I woke up in the middle of the night I laid there tossing and turning.  This week I've been so tired that I actually fall asleep before Ty which is an amazing feat because I've never known anyone who can fall asleep as fast as he can.  I pretty much lay down and am asleep within minutes.  I've also been taking 30 minute to hour naps depending on the day.  One day I took a 2 hour nap and felt awful when I woke up.

    Symptoms: Cramping has returned this week, I think mostly due to my ill-fitting pants.  I've still been dry heaving pretty much every morning and dread brushing my teeth because that typically causes a long drawn out bout of heaves.  Wednesday morning was the worst and Carter stood beside me talking and then spit in the toilet when I was done.  When I get the heaves I get a bunch of bile come up into my mouth and I spit it out.  It's basically like throwing up minus the chunks.  Lovely, I know.

    Running: Things started to really click this week.  I had days during the week where I ran 8:30 pace and it felt amazing.  I'm starting to feel really good and strong on my runs.  On Saturday we ran the Zoo Run 5k.  Thomas volunteered to run with Carter so I was sans stroller.  I ran a 5k right around the same timing when I was pregnant with Carter so I thought it would be interesting to see how I compared with this run.  I went into the race figuring I'd be able to run somewhere around 7:45-8 minute pace.  I went out at what felt comfortable and just went with it.  I was shocked when my watch beeped for the first mile and showed my first mile split was 7:24.  I actually freaked out a little bit and decided to slow down during the 2nd mile and if I still felt really good I'd pick the pace up a little bit during the last mile.  My 2nd mile was 7:35 and it felt slow.  My body wanted to go faster so I picked up the pace, but only to what felt easy and comfortable.  My last mile was 7:19 which put me finishing in 23:11.  I was 1st in my age group and 4th overall female (only 2 seconds behind the 3rd place finisher, which I didn't realize during the race).  I was impressed with how fast I ran while still feeling very comfortable.  I didn't realize an average of 7:25 pace would feel so good.  In comparison I ran the 4th of July 5k race between weeks 12 and 13 when pregnant with Carter and my time was about a minute slower at 24:15.

    Food Cravings: Still craving fish and I think that will continue until I'm able to satisfy the craving.  It might be a while!  I wake up from my nap really hungry and last week I wanted a breakfast burrito really badly one day so when Carter woke up we walked to Sonic and used a gift card I had to get a junior breakfast burrito.  It was so good I did it 3 days in a row...

    Food Aversions: I have conquered all of my aversions except for barbeque and have a sneaky suspicion that I would be able to eat it too, I just haven't tried.  It doesn't sound appetizing to me.

    Movement: Getting closer and closer to feeling those first kicks!

    Best Moment of the Week: The zoo run was a blast and walking around the zoo afterward with the whole family was a blast.  It was especially fun to hear Carter say tiger over and over when he saw the tiger.  It was definitely his favorite animal during this trip.  

    Currently Loving: We are half-way to our next appointment and seeing our little precious again!  It's crazy to think we'll be able to find out the baby's sex!  I'm hopeful that we will get good news that my placenta has started to shift as I still haven't had any bleeding.  I'm hoping that's a good sign.

    Miss Anything: I suddenly craved a raspberry beer this weekend, but I don't really miss it because I would much rather be pregnant than drink beer!

    What Big Brother is Up to This Week: When Carter sees the ultrasound pictures hanging on the fridge, he'll point to them and say baby.  He does all types of hilarious things when I ask him where the baby is including pointing at his own tummy!  We are closing in on the time when my belly will start to pop and he'll be able to see the change.  It will be so cute when he points at my belly when we ask where the baby is!  My Week 14 Bumpdate with Carter.
     
     

    Monday, October 6, 2014

    Weekly Learning Theme: Potty Training

    For a while now Carter has been showing signs of being ready for potty training.  He tells me when he poops.  He grabs his crotch and fusses when he potties his diaper.  He loves sitting on his potty.  He even squeezed out a couple dribbles of potty while sitting on the potty one time.  Then he sat down on the potty after a bath and pottied a big potty!  He still likes to watch both Ty and me go potty and he helps flush the toilet and waves bye bye as we flush.  He wakes up from naps and nighttime fairly dry.  He even started trying to pull down his own pants.  Part of me felt like it was time but part of me was afraid to try.  Just recently he would go sit on the potty but if I tried to pull his pants down he would cry.  I would also see him potty (I could tell because he'd stop what he was doing, stand there, and make a face) but show no interest in getting changed.  I was waffling back and forth on whether he was actually ready or not.  Ty and I discussed it and finally decided we'd never know if he was really ready if we didn't try. 

    Last week I had a free week with with no planned learning theme followed by a weekend at home.  I figured it was a perfect time to go for it!  We'd spend the week getting Carter excited about potty training and then we'd dive in on the weekend.  That way we'd have Saturday, Sunday, and Monday before Jake came on Tuesday to completely devote to potty training.  If it didn't work out, we'd try the week again at a later time.  No harm done.  Then I realized we had a race planned for that Saturday and my family would be in town.  So I jumped ahead and started potty training on Thursday instead.  I'm going to share the activities we did throughout the week, highlighting what area they fit into: field trip/interactive experience, crafts, songs, make believe, movement, and special snack.  I will also share our book list for themed-related reading throughout the week.

    Listed below are the objectives I am focusing on for the themed weeks.  The highlighted objectives are ones Carter received exposure to during our theme this week:
    1. Know the names of and be able to point out body parts.
    2. Know names of objects and be able to point to them when asked.
    3. Sort objects based on size or color/Match like objects together, for example match a circle with a circle. 
    4. Play make believe.
    5. Speak in short phrases and 2-4 word sentences. (He's done some 2 word sentences already!)
    6. Follow simple instructions.
    Activities/Movement:
    • The first thing I did to prepare for potty training week was buy Carter a doll that went potty.  We had Amazon credit saved up from using our Discover card so I got this doll and this book without spending any money!
    • When our package came in the mail Carter was so excited about his new doll.  He immediately grabbed her and wanted to give her the bottle.  Then he carried her into the kitchen and put her in the high chair.  After a little bit in the high chair he took her into our room looking for Jake's Pack n Play which wasn't set up while saying "Baby Ni Ni?"  It was so cute!  I could tell he would enjoy teaching the dolly how to potty.  I had debated between getting the cheapo girl doll or paying more for a Potty Scotty.  After using the cheapo doll, I do wish I had sprung for the more expensive one.  I didn't realize the doll I bought immediately potties when you give her water whereas the Potty Patty and Potty Scotty dolls don't potty until you squeeze their tummies.  I tried putting tape over her hole and removing it once I put her on the potty, but then my hand was in the way of Carter seeing her potty.  Then I just waited to give her a drink until she was on the potty, but Carter got distracted watching her drink and missed her going potty.  He still got the idea, but it would've been nice to have a better doll.  She also only came with one pair of panties so when she had an accident I had Carter switch her back into her diapers which I don't think he noticed. 
     

    • In preparation for potty training I helped Carter practice pulling up and down his pants all week long.  He really enjoyed feeling like a big boy doing it mostly by himself.
    • Carter initially loved sitting on the potty, but started acting scared and/or upset to get on the potty.  To make him feel more comfortable on the potty I had him practice sitting on potty both with and without a diaper on.  While he sat I made up and sang potty songs.  He loved the songs and I just made them up as I went.  For example, sung to the tune of Old MacDonald: Carter is a big boy.  Sitting on the potty.  With a tinkle tinkle here and a tinkle tinkle there, here a tinkle, there a tinkle, everywhere a tinkle tinkle.  Big boys go on the potty, not in their diapers.
    Pretending to potty standing up like daddy.
    • All week I talked about what Carter was doing as a big boy.  I'd say things like "Carter is washing his hands like a big boy!" and "Carter is helping mommy cook like a big boy!"  I wanted Carter to really be thinking of himself as a big boy so when I told him big boys potty on the potty chair he would associate it with something he should do.
    • Hand washing is something we've been working on for a while in preparation for potty training and simply because Carter was ready to start doing it.  I made sure he had the opportunity to wash his hands multiple times a day so he would be able to wash his hands after going potty.
    Ready to wash his hands.
    • My mom made and mailed Carter the cutest book to get him excited for potty training.  On each page she had a picture of either me, Jeremy, or Thomas on our potty chairs when we were first learning to potty.  I read the book with Carter and talked with him about how we all had to learn to use the potty.
    Reading his "Family Potty Book" from Oma while on the potty.
    • One day I walked Carter to the bathroom door which we normally keep closed.  I told him now that he's a big boy, he's going to be using his potty in the bathroom soon.  Since he's a big boy and will need to use the potty, we are going to keep the bathroom door open for him.  We also talked about how since he's a big boy he knows the bathroom isn't a place to play.  We walked to both bathrooms and opened both the doors while I told him how he's a big boy now and will be using the potty soon.  When Ty got home from work Carter and I walked him to the bathroom and told him how the door will be open from now on because Carter is a big boy and will be using the potty soon.  We all cheered for him and he was very excited.
    Craft:
    • I had to be creative with a craft this week.  My first thought was to buy a pair of plain, white big boy undies and let Carter decorate them.  I liked the idea, but didn't want to mess with buying special markers to decorate and all that jazz.  Then I thought we could make an art project using toilet paper.  But then the more I thought about it, the more I hated the idea of Carter thinking toilet paper was a toy.  So then I decided to make a craft using a toilet paper roll.  I googled toilet paper roll crafts and came upon this website.  There were no directions for creating the toilet paper snake, just a picture of the finished product.  I got a toilet paper roll, cut it like in the picture, taped it to the table with masking tape, and let Carter finger paint it.  Once it was dry I added googly eyes.  His snake is no longer all twisted and neat looking like the one in the picture so in retrospect I think I should have had him paint the toilet paper roll before cutting out the snake.
    Painting the toilet paper roll.
     
    Carter's snake.  I took the picture before the glue dried, that's why one eye looks way bigger!

    Special Snack:
    • During our intense potty training day Carter got some special snacks and special drinks to reinforce him for staying dry and for going potty on the potty chair.  We used Cinnamon Toast Crunch, Cheetos, and apple juice.  Part of me was inwardly struggling with giving him sugary cereal and chips, but holy cow was it rewarding to him!  An advantage to pretty much only ever giving him milk and water was that once I gave him apple juice (mixed with some water) as a reward for staying dry he drank soooo much juice!  Little man wouldn't stop drinking it.  I'm talking going potty every 10 minutes he drank so much!  It was crazy how excited he was for that "amal duice"!
     Make Believe:
    • During the first part of potty training we used our potty dolly who we just called Dolly.  We pretended to give her drinks and watched her pretend potty.  We even took her potty to the big toilet and flushed it.  Carter loved teaching the dolly how to use the potty.
    Songs:

    This week the songs were mostly ones I made up to help Carter feel comfortable and safe on the potty.  We only listened to one song on Youtube because some of them were just weird to me and I knew they wouldn't make that much sense to him until he was trained on how to use the potty.

    Potty Song


    Field Trip/Interactive Experience:
    • Our big experience this week was our intensive potty training day.  We started the day by teaching Dolly how to use the potty complete with taking the potty to the toilet, flushing, and washing our hands.  Then we started in with Carter trying it out.  We followed the guidelines from the book Toilet Training in Less Than a Day as closely as we could.  I checked Carter's undies to see if they were dry every 5 minutes and gave him a treat if they were dry.  He sat on the potty every 15 minutes, starting with 10 minutes on the potty and switching down to 5 minutes on the potty once he had gone potty on the potty chair.  When he was on the potty I didn't talk to him and encouraged him to sit quietly so he would relax and be able to go just like the book said.  Carter did an amazing job and pottied while sitting on the chair for only the 2nd time that morning.  Then he had an accident right before it was time to get on the potty again.  The first 4 times he pottied on the chair, he had an accident in between each successful potty on the chair.  The next 3 times he pottied with no accidents in between, going an hour with no accidents.  Since he drank so much he was pottying, I kid you not, about every 10 minutes!  Then we stopped for lunch and a nap.  I put him back in diapers for his nap because he was really tired and I didn't want him to get woken up by wet undies.  A pretty gnarly storm rolled in during nap time which sporadically woke him up and when he got up from his nap he started crying really hard and wouldn't stop.  When we went back in the kitchen to continue potty training he became hysterical and didn't want to have anything to do with the potty.  After that any time I asked him to get on the potty he cried really hard with big tears rolling down his face so I decided to discontinue the training.
    • Through our day of intensive training Carter learned the steps for using the potty and now understands what the potty is for.  Although he is not fully potty trained and I switched him back to diapers I consider it successful because it laid the foundation for the potty training method we are now using.  Carter had a stretch where he screamed and cried when I tried to get him on the potty, so I started reading to him while he sat on the potty rather than following the instructions from the book and refraining from talking to him.  He will happily sit on the potty for 30 minutes or more while I read to him.  I allow him to decide when he wants to get off the potty and am often shocked how long he will sit, waiting to go potty.  The first day after our intensive training day I just asked Carter to get on the potty once.  As the days have gone on I have increased the frequency by one time per day.  He still has quite a few times where he gets on the potty and doesn't do anything, but I'm pleased that he enjoys the potty now and doesn't scream and cry when I ask him to get on.  I think it will be a while before he's in big boy undies full-time and that's fine with me.  This was all an experiment and I wanted Carter to lead me in knowing whether it was the right time or not.  I believe it was the right time to start, but not the right time to jump in full force and switch him over to big boy undies right away.  The transition period we are in now feels right and Carter is happy, so we're going with it.  I don't have many pictures of Carter on the potty because when he's sitting on the potty I give him my full attention and am also paying very close attention so I can praise him the moment he begins to potty.
    Enjoying the potty.
    Books:

    I was quite impressed with the very useful books about going potty.  Carter was really interested in them and especially liked the books with actual photographs of children.  I have a stack of books beside his potty and we've read them over and over while he sits on the potty!
    • The New Potty by Mercer Mayer
    • Pottytime Chickies by Janee Trasler
    • Llama Llama Nighty Night by Anna Dewdney
    • Once Upon a Potty by Alona Frankel
    • Everyone Poops by Taro Gomi
    • I Want My Potty by Tony Ross
    • My Big Girl Potty by Joanna Cole
    • Sam's Potty by Barbro Lindgren
    • The Potty Book for Boys by Alyssa Satin Capucilli
    • The Potty Book for Boys by DK Reader
    • Big Boys Use the Potty! by Andrea Pinnington
    • My Big Boy Undies by Karen Katz
    • Potty by Leslie Patricelli
    • Potty Time by Charles Reasoner
    • Time to Pee! by Mo Willems
    • No More Diapers for Ducky! by Bernette G. Ford
    • Going to the Potty by Fred Rogers
    • You Can Go to the Potty by William Sears